滄蘭之室--閣樓上的美好時光

最近身邊幾位還沒結婚，選擇不結婚，或尚未準備結婚的女朋友們過得非常精彩璀璨，當然，精彩璀璨是現況，在此之前，她們都為自己的人生做過超乎想象的努力与掙扎，包含，選擇一條“大部分人都不會走的路”，并且，一路上，學會享受這樣一條看似寂寞的道路。。。。

然而，我卻覺得這樣的勇氣使她們益發光彩奪目，想想看，她們怎麼走過來的，母親無盡的擔憂与叨念，錯過的一些穩定的關係，旁人的質疑，很多很多的朋友的關愛。。。想想看，這樣有多麼不簡單，但是，她們竟然走得如此姿態優雅，不疾不徐。。。

也許，這一切早已無關於結婚不結婚，而是關於一個人的生命態度，很難三言兩語道盡，只是在有限的生命裡，她們選擇了少數人走的道路，卻也因而看見了不凡的景色，創造了無限的可能性。。。

使我想起一首每每捧讀便令人意猶未盡的詩：

           The Road Not Taken         Robert Frost

　　Two roads diverged in a yellow wood,

　　And sorry I could not travel both

　　And be one traveler, long I stood

　　And looked down one as far as I could

　　To where it bent in the undergrowth;

　　Then took the other, as just as fair,

　　And having perhaps the better claim,

　　Because it was grassy and wanted wear;

　　Though as for that the passing there

　　Had worn them really about the same,

　　And both that morning equally lay

　　In leaves no step had trodden black.

　　Oh, I kept the first for another day!

　　Yet knowing how way leads on to way,

　　I doubted if I should ever come back.

　　I shall be telling this with a sigh

　　Somewhere ages and ages hence:

　　Two roads diverged in a wood,and I—

　　I took the one less traveled by,

　　And that has made all the difference.