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    December 5, 2008
    christs - 兔子洞專欄 | 2008-12-05 23:09:01

    　　    The last part is for you only:

    　　So many years, I’ve come to realize that I don't need your approval to find my worth, cause without you, I can still help myself through the hard time. Maybe the past days are better left unsaid, as they say. But I still want to say something to you, you have always expected me to be just like you, so that you can pretend to be one of my parents. In many ways, I know I’m similar to you. But when I grew up and came to see you again, I really can find something different between you and me, and It helps me to comprehend, that you can not control me anymore, just like you can not control my mother. Do you perceive that I’m independent enough to refuse you, to refuse your perfectionism?

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    December 1, 2008
    christs - 兔子洞專欄 | 2008-12-01 08:08:42

    　　    That embrace was so significant, now I understand. Will it too late? But be honestly, I don’t sympathize with you. The time when you told me that you’re heart broken, in your arms (or you in my arms?) I was thinking about why you can not be able to take it as a resigned attitude? Your marriage is not breaking up; you still had (have) my father—if you want. And in fact, what goes around, comes around.