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ＩＤ：zkc
暱稱：阿邊
生日：1908/09/8
地區：新竹市
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身旁電力陳蜷縮一角 棉被睡在我身上
真抱歉阿 一大早以囧為開端
與迪歐思小心翼翼跨過昨夜踏破的地板 晨光灑落
我們開啟了漫漫尋水之旅 沿著無盡道路隨步
七點的朝陽已令人悶汗 那十一點呢
輕撫紅痛脖子 咕嚕嚕的灌著水
得來不易的一瓶水呀 我轉頭望著二十分鐘前的遠端
十一點的通宵 沙礫燙得炙人腳板
喔 那是聽身旁隊友哀嚎的 我穿布鞋呢
穿布鞋打沙灘排球 嗯 不過是忘了帶拖鞋...
比賽結果也很莫名其妙 弱腳扳倒強者 哈哈
無視艷陽吻痕 頂著一點的晴空踏浪
鹹灰海水 笑聲綻放在一朵朵浪花裡
碎浪浮沉 緊握的泥漿流洩指縫
只代一聲令下 攻擊哪個倒楣鬼
噢 我的背後留有土石流肆虐慘況呢
別多想了 埋伏吧
回程的晴空 三點鐘天藍
山道126殺彎 判斷 減速 壓車 微催 拉起 加速
凝視 專注
順便暗罵卡車道的新手
林風拂過耳畔 碎葉低語輪下
聆聽引擎與風的狂想......
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炙陽是唯一的回憶
告訴自己 將曬傷當成紀念品
哀悼不願面對的現實
不擦防曬油 不帶外套 不穿長褲
六月的她吻遍了我的皮膚
留下紅痛的印記
海天一線 隆起草丘埋藏過往唏噓
那年清晨 涼適已逝
不復存在 連同期盼
瓦解在防波堤的碎沫裡
旅程的中繼是典型的雞肋
午餐與冰店 純樸防線崩潰在銅臭裡
食之無味 棄之可惜
與其臭臉不如心平靜氣的嚥下
保暖思趕路
農村著上盎綠夏裝迎接
我卻懷念她的冬裝:
不是死沉 暗靄的灰
而是燦爛笑容
融在萬紫千紅的冬裝裡
故地重遊 新的人們點亮新的感動
而我也被現實赤裸裸折磨著
感動 減輕不了痛楚...
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睡眼惺忪 所謂的動力
是沉醉晨曦映臉
仰德大道下漸甦的台北城
山道競速時的切彎角度
或是期待與你早餐
最後一項是認真的嗎?
脫困 早有預兆
五點三十七 當光從灰濛監獄解禁
黑天鵝絨 深色單寧
旅人衝破一弧弧街燈畫下的圓
仰德 小油坑 漫山灰綠
這是祂慣常的接客禮
髮夾彎盡頭是光的囚禁所
五點三十七
從巨人背後竄出
招搖呀 困了將近十二小時的悶氣
招搖呀 生靈紛紛甦醒致意
紀錄當下感動
傳完簡訊
眼前 迷濛濃霧卻彷彿未曾散去
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「我就這樣過了一生」繞口的片名，卻緊緊抓住觀眾的心。最初女主角桂美是個害羞、順從的女孩，由於逃難到台灣的關係，與故鄉的愛人失去了聯繫。她嫁給一位在餐廳上班、育有三個小孩的侯先生，而親戚也一再保證侯先生沒有不良習慣，加上婚前侯先生體貼相待，桂美也接受了他。孰知婚後一切變了樣，丈夫賭錢賭丟了工作，失業後也不知長進，不努力找工作卻藉酒澆愁；相對地，女主角溫柔安慰丈夫、忍受前妻小孩敵視、積極尋找工作機會。妻子辛勤努力卻換不了先生的上進心，侯先生一再發誓戒賭，私下卻偷桂美私房錢試手氣……令人鼻酸的劇情，也寫實地描述早期經濟艱困情景。如果女主角沒有極高的EQ，如何面對生活種種逆境？傳統重男輕女思潮下，女人需遵守繁文褥節、俗語甚至有「嫁雞隨雞，嫁狗隨狗」形容女人的無奈。無論丈夫爭氣上進，或老老實實做好本分，無不良習慣，而妻子相夫教子，處理家中各種雜務，成為稱職的賢妻良母。倘若丈夫不爭氣呢？傳統思維下，弱勢的女人該如何撐起家庭？如果現代女人遇到片中情況，會繼續相信丈夫、對未來保持樂觀、為了小孩而堅守家庭嗎？
不同教育水準或時空背景，婚姻中有一方無法扮演好他（她）在家庭中的角色，人們最初應對方式大多為忍耐並給予對方鼓勵；結果分為兩種：幸運的話，婚姻雙方互相扶持走過生活的風風雨雨直到生命盡頭。不幸的情況則為：付出的努力與妥協仍無法喚醒對方的良知，家庭也無法正常運作。該結束婚姻、展開新人生，或相信「明天會更好」嗎？對我而言，盡全力加上尋求諮商仍無法轉變現況，我會選擇結束婚姻（當然，前提為「另一半未盡家庭中應有的責任」）。人生短暫，若將精力都置於「處理家庭問題」上，不如選擇分居或離婚，留給彼此喘息空間。關於小孩的教養問題，會請教專家吧？希望留給下一代的陰影越少越好，我會尋求專家的援助並多與小孩溝通。情境都是預設的，未來真的發生時，其複雜度必遠勝於我現在所設想的……。
此外，劇情也呈現一個有趣的情境：桂美與丈夫遠赴日本服侍家境優渥的主人；然而，無論經濟情況如何，每段婚姻都有其潛在的問題。諷刺的是，桂美服侍的家庭看來人人稱羨，但私下卻有妻子怒斥老公、摔東西等與外人認知相反的形象；丈夫軟弱、妻子強勢，權力不平等。滿足了物質生活，也更應注意另一半的精神生活；如果劇中的主人家庭能多花點時間彼此溝通，心平氣和將彼此認為不適當之處娓婉告知，讓雙方了解問題並共思解決之道，片中的男主人也毋須如此悲情了。
最後來談談女主角吧！心思纖細、堅強、樂觀，桂美不臣服於生命中種種艱難，彷彿風雨中的船長，縱使海像奇險，仍能依其強烈方向感找出正確方位，脫離險境。每當面臨危機她總能提出應變方法：決心到日本發展、離開其服侍家庭並在人生地不熟的日本工作、最後決定回台灣應用所學廚藝開餐廳；每當老公有所質疑或退縮，桂美總能鼓勵他，讓他相信「以我們的力量也能做到」。秉持踏實的信念，返台後真的開了餐廳，門庭若市。最令人感到不捨的是，女主角得了重病，在僅存無幾的日子裡，向孩子們說：「你們要叫老爸去打牌，他這人年紀一大把了，興趣也沒多少；叫他有空賭些小錢吧」（丈夫賭博習慣直到遠赴日本後才戒除）。早年桂美視賭博為拆散家庭的亂源，老年原諒了丈夫年輕時的荒唐，也看出對丈夫的深切情感。
像桂美一般的女性默默在社會中、家庭裡稱職扮演她們的角色。她們也許是自己的母親、親戚、鄰居、朋友的家人般親近；平凡的生活，而不凡的感動也在灰暗世界中綻放。
but you still couln't understand how great achievements you could do
the power of change is hide in your diffident heart
what i can do is to ...
well,
what can i DO, after all?
shame on me, for doing nothing but sighing helplessly
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We can discover several cultural differences between English and Indian people, such as food、clothing、wedding、religion and concept of conservative.
Let’s start at food! When mention about food in India, it’s necessary to introduce the climate of India first. The climate of India varies from tropical monsoon in south to temperate in north. The temperature is extremely high in specific months. In order to wake up the appetite, Indian cuisine is spicy and sour, such as Aloo Gobi、clusters of spicy mutton-roasted and curry. By contrast, Western food like dairy、salad、bread or steak. When it speaks about wedding, Indian like to wear beautiful clothing（sari）Instead, Western wedding tend to be dignified. People wear suit. The religion：India has several religions, such as Hinduism、Islam and Buddhism. The Hinduism is the main religion people believe in. If you’re interested in Indian temple, you can check the web site to get more information： http://www.templenet.com/
The last difference is the concept of conservative. In the film “Bend It Like Beckham”, we can see the India parents care almost everything about their children. For example, Jess was told to mingle with an Indian rather than English. Pinky’s engagement was forced to cancel because her sister was considered as homosexual. Also, Jessie’s parents wanted her to be a lawyer rather than a football player. Besides, it’s interesting to see Jess’s mother taught her how to cook Indian dishes in order to have a good marriage!
In “Bend It Like Beckham”, I was impressed by the courage and friendship between Jules and Jess! It’s a story about overcoming dilemma: seizing the dream or following parents’ advice. Jess knew her goal definitely. She challenged the conservative thoughts and dared to “dream big”! Insisting on the creed you believe, no matter how hard it would be. You will never learn how to swim if you don’t jump into the water! Be brave to face the obstacles!
Kadala CurryIngredients:
l Kadala - 2 cups
l Mustard - 1/4 tsp
l Onion - 1
l Ginger - a small piece (1 inch length)
l Garlic - 6 cloves
l Chillie Powder - 1ts
l salt to taste
optional ( small pieces of coconut, coconut milk and garam masala powder(1/2 tsp))
Method:
Cook the kadala with salt and keep it aside. In a pan season the mustard and satue onions, ginger, garlic, chillie powder, coriander powder, turmeric powder, chopped tomatoes and curry leaves. (optional small pieces of coconut can be added). Add the cooked kadala to it. For extra taste add half cup of coconut milk and masala powder.
Puttu ( Steam Cake )The most popular breakfast of Kerala
Rice flour -2 cups
Grated coconut -1 cup
Water -1/2 cup
Salt to taste
Method:
Add salt and approximately 3 table spoons of grated coconut into the flour and mix well. Add water little by little to the rice flour and mix it. The flour should be wet enough for steaming, but we have to be careful when you add water to the flour. The consistency has got to be right. It should not become too watery. Puttu has to be made in a Puttu maker. Layer the Puttu maker with some grated coconut first, then the rice mixture and then the grated coconut again. Steam for 2-3 minutes, take out and serve hot.
Green Pea SoupIngredients:
l Cooked Peas - 11/2cup
l Butter - 2tsp
l Flour - 1tsp
l Milk - 1/2cup
l Powdered pepper - 1tsp
l Meat stock or boiled water - 21/2cup
l Sat - to taste
l Cream for topping
Method :
Mix the butter and flour with meat stock. Mix the cooked peas and milk in a mixer till it becomes a smooth paste. Add this to the meat stock. Simmer in sauce pan on slow fire till soup is smooth and thick. Add salt and pepper to taste.
Ngredients
Ingredients:
l Vanaspati (Dalda) or butter - 1/2kg
l Sugar - 150gm
l Coarsely ground sugar - 50gm
l Egg yolk - 2nos
Thick Ginger juice (without water) - 2dsp
l Vanilla essence - 1/4tsp
Method :
Melt 150gm sugar in a thick bottom pan. When the color changes to light red, pour it to a greased flat vessel evenly. Allow to cool and take it out of the vessel and grind.
Sieve all the 5th ingredients together. Mix well the vanaspati or butter with the prepared sugar powder and the coarsely ground sugar. Add egg yolk and ginger juice alternately into it and mix. Add sieved flour, cashew nuts and vanilla essence and knead without much pressure, to make a fine dough. Make small balls from the dough and shape it like cashew nuts. Bake the biscuits at 300oC for about 20 minutes.
The most popular breakfast of Kerala
Rice flour -2 cups
Grated coconut -1 cup
Water -1/2 cup
Salt to taste
Method:
Add salt and approximately 3 table spoons of grated coconut into the flour and mix well. Add water little by little to the rice flour and mix it. The flour should be wet enough for steaming, but we have to be careful when you add water to the flour. The consistency has got to be right. It should not become too watery. Puttu has to be made in a Puttu maker. Layer the Puttu maker with some grated coconut first, then the rice mixture and then the grated coconut again. Steam for 2-3 minutes, take out and serve hot.
Green Pea SoupIngredients:
l Cooked Peas - 11/2cup
l Butter - 2tsp
l Flour - 1tsp
l Milk - 1/2cup
l Powdered pepper - 1tsp
l Meat stock or boiled water - 21/2cup
l Sat - to taste
l Cream for topping
Method :
Mix the butter and flour with meat stock. Mix the cooked peas and milk in a mixer till it becomes a smooth paste. Add this to the meat stock. Simmer in sauce pan on slow fire till soup is smooth and thick. Add salt and pepper to taste.
Ngredients
Ingredients:
l Vanaspati (Dalda) or butter - 1/2kg
l Sugar - 150gm
l Coarsely ground sugar - 50gm
l Egg yolk - 2nos
Thick Ginger juice (without water) - 2dsp
l Vanilla essence - 1/4tsp
Method :
Melt 150gm sugar in a thick bottom pan. When the color changes to light red, pour it to a greased flat vessel evenly. Allow to cool and take it out of the vessel and grind.
Sieve all the 5th ingredients together. Mix well the vanaspati or butter with the prepared sugar powder and the coarsely ground sugar. Add egg yolk and ginger juice alternately into it and mix. Add sieved flour, cashew nuts and vanilla essence and knead without much pressure, to make a fine dough. Make small balls from the dough and shape it like cashew nuts. Bake the biscuits at 300oC for about 20 minutes.
Ingredients:
l Cooked Peas - 11/2cup
l Butter - 2tsp
l Flour - 1tsp
l Milk - 1/2cup
l Powdered pepper - 1tsp
l Meat stock or boiled water - 21/2cup
l Sat - to taste
l Cream for topping
Method :
Mix the butter and flour with meat stock. Mix the cooked peas and milk in a mixer till it becomes a smooth paste. Add this to the meat stock. Simmer in sauce pan on slow fire till soup is smooth and thick. Add salt and pepper to taste.
Ngredients
Ingredients:
l Vanaspati (Dalda) or butter - 1/2kg
l Sugar - 150gm
l Coarsely ground sugar - 50gm
l Egg yolk - 2nos
Thick Ginger juice (without water) - 2dsp
l Vanilla essence - 1/4tsp
Method :
Melt 150gm sugar in a thick bottom pan. When the color changes to light red, pour it to a greased flat vessel evenly. Allow to cool and take it out of the vessel and grind.
Sieve all the 5th ingredients together. Mix well the vanaspati or butter with the prepared sugar powder and the coarsely ground sugar. Add egg yolk and ginger juice alternately into it and mix. Add sieved flour, cashew nuts and vanilla essence and knead without much pressure, to make a fine dough. Make small balls from the dough and shape it like cashew nuts. Bake the biscuits at 300oC for about 20 minutes.
i gave myself a smile as gift...
the smile
the smile smile to make me smile smile
so the smile smile smiled my smile
but they didn't know
so i took my smile smile away
to let the smile smile smiled itself...
tonight
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In fact, not all of the students choose their department willingly. For example, parents ask children to study in department of Finance, but they neglect whether children are interested in it or not! It will causes great depression for students to major in a department which they dislike. Besides, students may receive in formation like:"the hoottest occpation is *** " or" *** can earn a great fortune! " Such information will mislead students to study in a department which is unsuitable for them.
If we can choose the suitable department, then why people are still dropped out of college? Frankly speaking, the problems like Internet or computer games spoil students! Also, the instsnt communication tools , such as MSN, Yahoo Messenger, provide convenient ways to communicate with people. However, adavantages are accompanied
by disadavantages. People will waste time on chatting. Also, playing on-line game is popular among college students. Although the above activities can relieve our stress, we must control time well.
In addition, if we spend too much time on other activities, like clubs, part time job, sports tournament...,etc. Being active in activities benifits us a lot, but we must balance the focus between study and other activities.
Now that we've known the main reasons ofdropping out of colledge, how to prevent from such embarrassment? First, we choose the right department and collect the in formation from seniors or Internet. Understanding the occupations we may do compeletely if we decide to major in it. Besides, persuading parents as rational as possible in order to let them respect our decision. Second, arrange schedual properly. Learn time managementin order to use time efficiently. Likewise, don't indulge in surfing the Internet or playing computer games. The most inportant of all,concentrate on studying and ask for help when you face problems. What's more, remember to review the lessons after school; the more exercises we do, the better scores we'll get! Following the tips above, I hope you can finish your college life on time!
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黑白學士服的意義又為何
期待純屬多餘
牛奶糖 夜騎 all pass糖 信紙
妳走了
意義何在
昨夜的元智很美
引頸期盼的人們
閃爍雨珠的香水百合
細雨燈霧
以及意外遇到的朋友們
還少了點什麼...
Morita, it's not the end of the story
I'll back you up
keep the letter, please...
more expectations?
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